Pour Your Heart Out: I Am a Grinch

I can’t lie, I am not a fan of Christmas really. I mean, as a Christian, I celebrate the birth of Jesus, but the secular part I could really do without.

I dislike the retail push with all the commercials and just general “in your face” marketing.  It just gets worse every year too it seemed.  The kids were barely done trick or treating before the stores were putting out their Christmas displays.  What happened to Thanksgiving??

And the gift giving?  I hate trying to find the perfect gift for someone who already has everything just because I have to give them something.  Trying to figure out what to give my kids seems to get harder each year too and they are only 5 and 6.  They already barely play with what they have and now we are going to add more junk?

The holiday schedule drives me nuts at times.  I strive on routine and things being the same.  During the holidays you have different hours, a crazy calendar, and life is just not “normal”.  It can be exhausting.

When I met my husband, he was my perfect match in that he is sort of a grinch too.  Now that we have kids, we definitely put forth the effort.  He had to work Friday while I had the day off so I got out the tree, put it up, put on the lights, and had the girls decorate it.  I put a few holiday thinks up around the house.

I definitely do my best to make sure that my girls have a good holiday season despite my feelings but sometimes I wish the world would slow down and remember why we have Christmas in the first place.

 

Sweet Shot Tuesday: Flowers

 

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Striving to be better

Lately I am striving to be better….

A better friend.  I tend to push people away as they get close and shut down from them.  I want to cultivate friendships again and be someone that others can always count on.

A better daughter.  I want to show my mom and stepdad how much I appreciate all they have done for me.  I want to take the time to pick up the phone and call my dad or send him an email while he is in Florida for the winter.

A better mother. I am working on my patience with my girls. They are growing up so fast and before I know it be young women.  I am trying to put down the phone, close the computer, and listen.

A better wife.  The past couple of years have been rough for my husband and I.  While things are much better, it’s not with hard work and we must never let things get like they once were.

A better Christian.  I want to live my faith and become closer to God every day.

 

 

Sunday Funny

Link Love

Here are some of my favorite reads around the web this past week:

 I Have So Much More to Learn over at The Hip Mom’s Guide

I Used to Be Somebody at all.things.fadra

Is Baby Sleep a Question of Morality at Expatria, Baby.

My Kids Have Too Many Toys over at Babble.

And check out my guest post at Liberating Working Moms:  Feeling Guilty About Not Feeling Guilty